Questions That Work
Why is pretty worthless. Give me what, when, and how any day. When you get stuck in why, you go in circles looking for the black cat in the dark basement that is probably not there anyway. Why keeps Freudian analysts in groceries…and new cars. It is the interrogative of doubt and uncertainty. It is also the way to start your sentences so that you never get anything done. All of your energies are drained off by analysis. There is nothing left for the task.
Practicality is much along the line of the old adage, “Ours is to do or die, and not to reason why!” It is not that I am suggesting a mindless route through the difficulties of life. There is much value in pondering, but getting lost in why is a trip on the merry-go-round of the indecisive. Going from why to what is the ticket to productivity. There are things you can do about your lot in life right now. Asking how you got where you are is a fair question, but if you get lost in the great metaphysical why you will find yourself in the woods of bewilderment without a compass.
Staying on track means asking yourself, “What do I do next?” It is a far superior question to “Why am I in this mess?” Get real. Stay in questions that have solutions. There are wisdom circles that have this pretty well mastered. They say, “Only God knows why and He isn’t telling.” So get on with it!
That is pretty good advice. Look for the what and the how and the why will take care of itself. We are indeed mysteries to ourselves. We even do things that are beyond all rational explanation and analysis. Look at what you did and get on with life. Most of all, don’t waste your time analyzing others. You are not in the “God-track” of the in-the-know from some Divine perspective. You are human. Have a little humility. High horses and long falls are somehow connected.
Let me see, where is my list of things to do today? Ah, here it is. Finding out why is nowhere on it, so it looks like I will accomplish a lot today.








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