Circumstances or Surroundings?

by Dale Andrews on December 20th, 2009

Most peo­ple get stuck think­ing about their cir­cum­stances. They worry about pay­ing the bills and work out of an end­less list of imag­ined lim­i­ta­tions that have to do with age, money, sta­tus, edu­ca­tion, gen­der, race, etc. They put their efforts into try­ing to change many things that can­not be changed. After a while, they are exhausted — spent — burned out.

Some have learned to shift from cir­cum­stances to sur­round­ings. Sur­round­ings con­sist of nature and the focus is moti­vated by won­der. The moment you shift from cir­cum­stances to sur­round­ings you will feel bet­ter. Focus on the tree, the desert, the moun­tain, the lake or ocean out­side your kitchen win­dow. Look at the food in your refrig­er­a­tor. Pet your pet. Take note of the peo­ple that might be liv­ing in the house with you.

Get out of your head and into life. There are so many things to pon­der out­side of your inner list of traits. Stop com­par­ing your list to oth­ers. Life-lists were never intended by God to match. Every per­son on this planet that has ever been or ever will be is unique.

Ignore the soci­o­logic cat­e­gory peo­ple and the peo­ple that try to get national or inter­na­tional cir­cum­stances to be uni­form. That will never hap­pen. They are labor­ing under illu­sion. No mat­ter how many peo­ple share the illu­sion, you do not have to. Look at the sky. Notice the birds of the air and the lilies of the field. Flow­ers do not worry about cir­cum­stances. They bloom where they are planted and you can too.

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